Thank You for Praying

Thank you for the many prayers for Melinda's Daddy. He is now HOME with the Lord. For his story, please visit his CaringBridge site.

Saturday, April 9, 2011

Whited Update - VISAS & TICKETS!! (4/8/11)

Ministry e-mail sending out today...

Friday, April 08, 2011

I don’t really know how to start this e-mail except with the GREAT news that we have our visas!! 

This afternoon at 2:08, I got a call from SE Asia… it was in the wee hours of the morning (Saturday) there!  Dano’s future boss called to let us know that he had just received word that our visas were approved!  He wasn’t sure why he received word at such an odd hour, but it worked out to be the best thing for us!  We were able to purchase our tickets for about $1000 less (total) than the tickets we were going to buy if we’d found out our visas were approved first thing Friday morning!  I’d say God’s timing is perfect and more economical!  ;0)  We do believe that with your generous gifts, we will be able to fully cover the costs of our tickets!  Thank you, Lord!  Thank YOU for all your generous gifts and prayers!   

We’ve also sent our passports to New York to have our visas put in them at the Consulate’s office.  Now if the “government shuts down” as I keep hearing people ask, I don’t think it will affect us since the US government is not the one handling our visas and since I didn’t use the USPS to get them to NY!  BUT our passports being returned to us in a timely manner is a point of prayer! 

Since we have to be out of this house & return the van on the 15th  (next Friday), we are moving to an extended stay type hotel in Nashville near the airport large enough to house our family, and it has a full kitchen in the room, plus some meals that are included buffet style in the lobby.  It also has a shuttle service that will be able to take us to the airport! 

Our tickets have us fly out of the Nashville airport on Tuesday, April 19th in the afternoon.  From there we will go to NYC then we will fly east to Singapore then to our final destination!  We will be arriving at 8:25 a.m. on Thursday (which will “really” be 8:25 p.m. Wednesday back in Tennessee!)! 

Does this make you a little anxious as you read this?  Me, too!  But I am CONTINUALLY casting all my cares on Him because I know HE cares for me!  (1 Peter 5:6-8) And I know that I don’t need to be anxious about anything because with prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, I can present my requests to God!  (Philippians 4:6)  Isn’t it EXCITING to have God’s Word to encourage us and comfort us in these times?  I can’t imagine life without HIS promises!  Unfortunately there are around 2000 people groups who don’t have HIS Words in their heart language.  So when you start thinking, “WHY ON EARTH ARE THEY GOING THERE????” remember we are going so that those, who also bear the image of our Creator, may have the delight in knowing their Creator… the one who sent Jesus to be their Savior.  We think they are just as worthy as we are and deserve to have God’s Word, too.  So, THAT is why we are willing to go!  THAT is why we are excited to go!  May the Lord use our lives to bring Him Glory!  May the contributions we make through aviation bring about more followers of Christ!   Thank you for standing with us in prayer!  Thank you for sacrificing financially so that we may serve and go!  Thank you for all the gifts toward our airfare.  Thank you for the faithful monthly gifts that enable us to continue!

As you pray,
Praise the Lord for His perfect timing in granting our visas!
Please ask for our passports to be protected & returned quickly as they are on their way to New York to have the visas put in them.
Please pray for our family’s health as it seems they are fighting allergies or little things. 
Please pray for Wesley’s eczema to be healed.
Please pray for us to wrap up all the loose ends of storing & shopping & packing so that we can be out of this house by the 15th (that is next Friday!).
Please pray that all our extra expenses will be covered.
Please pray for our children as we make ANOTHER transition from one home to another then another then another!  Please pray for us as parents to make theses transitions just another fun part of our adventure!
Please pray specifically for Wesley; we endured some pretty rough storms this past week… tornado warnings & thunderstorms that knocked down a lot of trees in our neighborhood.  My sister was here with the 4 youngest while Dano & I were taking care of business in town.  Marcia took GREAT care of the kids, but now Wesley (4) is worried about when the storms are coming back.  Thankfully, he is sleeping through the night again, but please pray that his little heart would be filled with God’s perfect peace.
Please pray for Virginia’s safety as she has just learned how to climb out of her pack n play (AKA her bed)… what timing! 

Again, we truly thank you for your faithfulness to our family!  You make our service possible and enjoyable!  Thank you for staying in touch and letting us pray for you!

Serving Him,
Melinda for the Gang
Dano, Melinda, Olivia, Derek, Emma, Wesley, & Virginia


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HOW TO GIVE:

Send in a check made payable to Wycliffe Bible Translators to:

Wycliffe Bible Translators
P.O. Box 628200
Orlando, FL 32862-8200
                                                                                                                                                                                         
please include a separate note designating it for Dano & Melinda Whited Account # 215422
(gifts with this designation that are not our normal monthly gifts will go toward our airfare costs and/or our hotel costs)
  
You can also give online or by phone:


or

1-800-WYCLIFFE

You can also visit this link for other ways to give:



Friday, April 1, 2011

Pampered Chef Catalog Show - STILL OPEN

PARTY STILL OPEN! I'm trying to earn some free Pampered Chef items for this mission house. If you want something, please click on the link below, choose "shop online", type in my name as the host, then when you check out have it delivered to your house. Closing the party SUNDAY, NO FOOLING!  Sorry this keeps changing... it is due to my crazy life & the crazy life of my PC consultant!  =0) Thanks! =0)


http://www.pamperedchef.biz/chefisobel

Thank you to everyone who has already placed on order!  =0)

Virginia's First Haircut

Virginia turned 2 last month, and I decided she needed a haircut this past Monday... not so much because of her age, but because of the way her hair looked!  You'll see some "before" shots below.  She had some unusual hair!

She was our only child to be born with a LOT of hair (at least comparatively speaking), but as usually happens... most of it fell out.  However, she did manage to hang on to some long straight hairs around the top which have just continued to grow.  When her other hair came in, it has that sweet baby curl to it... BUT it was hard to see because this strange straight hair kept it covered... but just kind of sat on top of the curls for a not so cute look.  =0)  So I always tried to pull it back (the straight part) or blend it in... not very successfully!  =0)  So when the other girls and I were going to get our hair cut, I decided Virginia was going, too.  I wanted those long straight hairs cut!  =0)  See the before and after below!  I was thrilled!  And Virginia was GREAT!  Like she was there for the 15th time and knew exactly what to do!

Before
(writing on the chalkboard Kim
has for the kids to entertain themselves
and it works GREAT!)

Before

Before

The During Pictures:





"After" of the front before it is dry
Another "After"

If I had known how much better it would look after a haircut, she'd had her first haircut a long time ago!!  Now we can see her cute curls!!  =0)

Thursday, March 31, 2011

No Visas Yet! 3-30-11

Therefore, since we have been justified through faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom we have gained access by faith into this grace in which we now stand. And we rejoice in the hope of the glory of God. Not only so, but we also rejoice in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope. And hope does not disappoint us, because God has poured out his love into our hearts by the Holy Spirit, whom he has given us.  Romans 5:1-5

We come to you again this week asking you to pray for our visas to be approved ASAP. 

The verses above encourage us to persevere!  We are nowhere near a point of suffering, but we are at a point where we need to rejoice in these delays and to continue to persevere!  What a wonderful promise from God of His love being poured into our hearts by the Holy Spirit… a gift from God!  Thank you, God, for allowing us to gain access to you by faith through Jesus Christ!  Thank you for GRACE!  Father, may we never be disappointed since we can REST in knowing we have HOPE in you… and you hold everything in the palm of your hands! 

The extra time we’ve been given due to the delays is needed to finish up all the “things” we need to take care of here.  It allows us more quality time with family.  It should allow us to have more “adjustment” time once we reach Southeast Asia before we start our language studies.  We can rejoice in these things. 

We are daily casting our anxieties on HIM with the unknowns and the extra items the government officials in SE Asia continues to request.  We know HE is faithful to carry our burdens. 

Praises:
Our Emma had a WONDERFUL 6th birthday!
Derek turns 8 this weekend, & we plan to have another family celebration!
We are getting many things checked off our “to do” list!
New gifts for our airfare!  

As you continue to pray for our Visas…
please also pray for our family to stay healthy.  Pray that our bodies would work as God designed and fight off any infection we may come in contact with.
please pray for Virginia & Wesley’s protection as they both need 1 more vaccine… then we will be DONE!
please pray for us to be diligent about getting all the details taken care of before we leave & making good priorities to finish our “to do” list.
please pray for the remaining funds we need for airfare… and that we’d get an amazing deal when we purchase our tickets! 

Thank you, again, for standing alongside us and allowing us to serve!  You are truly our Aaron and Hur, holding us up in this battle!  (Exodus 17:8-13)

Serving with you,
Melinda for the gang
Dano, Melinda, Olivia, Derek, Emma, Wesley, & Virginia Whited

visit our blog or find us on facebook.

HOW TO GIVE:

Send in a check made payable to Wycliffe Bible Translators to:

Wycliffe Bible Translators
P.O. Box 628200
Orlando, FL 32862-8200
                                                                                                                                                                                          
please include a separate note designating it for Dano & Melinda Whited Account # 215422
(gifts with this designation that are not our normal monthly gifts will go toward our airfare costs)
   
You can also give online or by phone:


or

1-800-WYCLIFFE

You can also visit this link for other ways to give:


Saturday, March 26, 2011

Visiting the Cemetery

This morning my siblings and I, along with Dano, my kids, and my oldest niece, took a trip to Pegram to the Middle Tennessee State Veteran's Cemetery.  Not too long ago they were able to place Daddy's marker at his gravesite.  We wanted to all go together to see it.  We also wanted to take some flowers.  We took real flowers because the lady at the cemetery had told us that the deer will eat whatever you leave... even if they are plastic!  Below are some pictures from our morning.  We had a fun time together despite the reason for the trip.  We even got to enjoy lunch together.  =0)



Derek was the first to add flowers... I missed getting
a picture of him doing it.  



Wesley, Derek, Olivia, Emma, and Virginia
(It was a little chilly.)

Thursday, March 24, 2011

Pampered Chef Catalog Show

I'm doing a Pampered Chef Catalog Show. I need a couple of items before we go.  I thought I could do a catalog show and bless this mission house in TN with any free products! If you want something, go here:  http://www.pamperedchef.biz/chefisobel  Click on “Shop Online” then enter my name (Melinda Whited) as the host. Be sure to select to have stuff sent directly to you... I won't be delivering anything. =0) If you need any suggestions, let me know!  I LOVE Pampered Chef!  The stones are wonderful, the garlic press is GREAT, the apple wedger is the best, the quikut paring knives are handy (and cheap… I’m ordering some to take with me).  I think the Kitchen Spritzer is essential.  Goodness… I could go on and on… but I’ll stop now!  If you’re able to order, that is wonderful.  My party closes on the 30th… so you might order by the 29th… that is NEXT Tuesday!  THANKS!  Oh, you could book your own catalog show with Isobel if you want to!  Her and her husband serve with MMS in Ohio (the mission organization we used to serve with). 
Blessings,
Melinda  =0)  

Whited Update - Visa Delay 3/23/11

Our final prayer card picture (thanks to Kristin!)  Our prayer card has our
names and birthdates added along with my ministry e-mail and where
we will be serving.  If you'd like one, please contact me and
 I will send you one via e-mail.  

Immediately following is the update I sent out last night... below it are the two previous updates I sent out that I neglected to post on the blog.  Thanks for remaining so faithful to us!

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Well, I’ve been waiting to send out an update hoping I could tell you some good Visa news… but I guess I need to go ahead and send out an update that asks you to pray some more!  Our visas have NOT been approved yet, but we are hopeful they will be in the next week or two.  The government has been asking for more paperwork regarding our education & degrees & certifications… we have been giving them everything they ask for!  Once they are approved, we will purchase our tickets to leave.   

We did get some GOOD NEWS today… we can stay in this house in Hendersonville until April 15th!  That gives us 5 more days of “wiggle” room!  =0)  That enables us to breathe a little easier!

More GOOD NEWS is the wonderful time we had at our dinner that Keith organized for us.  It was a night of sweet fellowship with family, old friends, & new friends.  Thank you, Keith!

This Friday we are celebrating Emma’s 6th birthday with family (although her birthday isn’t til next week)!  We’ve also had a couple of busy weeks with dental & vision appointments with more to come and an appointment with a lawyer to make sure all our “affairs” are in order before leaving!  Shew… no wonder we can’t finish sorting all our stuff! 

I’m sure there is lots of more info I could give you… but I will leave it at that! 

We know the enemy can be busy at work; we know prayer can change things; and we know God is sovereign!  Thank you for praying on our behalf!  We know God hears your prayers!

Please pray for the Lord’s will to be done in HIS PERFECT timing.
Please pray that the enemy would be bound from our visa process and any part of our lives! 
Please pray that the government would find favor with our family and “Mr. H” and grant our visas ASAP.
Please continue to pray for our family’s health… we have been enjoying good health, praise the Lord!!  An AMAZING PRAISE is that Emma’s cough is COMPLETELY GONE… she doesn’t even need any medicine anymore!  Thank you for your prayers!  Not only is this just wonderful for her HEALTH & our peace of mind… it will save us around $150 a month in medicine!    
Please pray for God to provide the rest of the money we need to purchase our tickets.  We have 100% of what we need for our visas.  We have approximately $5000 toward our airfare.  This is great!  Thank you!  Depending on when we purchase our tickets, we’ll need at least $7000 total to purchase our airfare. 

Attached is our NEW PRAYER CARD!  Please print it out (or have it printed at Wal-Mart or wherever) and put it somewhere that will remind you to pray for our family on a regular basis.  (As mentioned in the caption above... I've only attached the picture.  If you'd like a prayer card, please contact me.)

Thank you for allowing us to pray for you! 

Serving alongside you,
Melinda for the gang 
Dano, Melinda, Olivia, Derek, Emma, Wesley, and Virginia Whited  =0)  

visit our blog or find us on facebook.

HOW TO GIVE:

Send in a check made payable to Wycliffe Bible Translators to:

Wycliffe Bible Translators
P.O. Box 628200
Orlando, FL 32862-8200
                                                                                                                                                                                          
please include a separate note designating it for Dano & Melinda Whited Account # 215422
(gifts with this designation that are not our normal monthly gifts will go toward our airfare costs)
   
You can also give online or by phone:


or

1-800-WYCLIFFE

You can also visit this link for other ways to give:


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Whited Update - Visas & Dinner (3/16/11)

Our last update was a call for prayers of healing and encouragement… we just wanted you to know that God answered those prayers abundantly!  Thank you!

Olivia’s illness was very short lived and didn’t even require a doctor visit!  Everyone else got well or stayed well.  We were very encouraged in our spirits by God’s Word, your words, and several circumstances that took place!  Thank you!  We have been able to spend time with our family & celebrate Virginia’s 2nd birthday.  This week my sisters & kids are on Spring break… so our kids are getting some fun cousin time this week! 

Another fun event this week is the dinner that Dano’s friend from high school has organized for us THIS Friday!  If you are in the area, we hope you can make it!  If you are on facebook, you can RSVP http://www.facebook.com/event.php?eid=167384173305150… if not, Keith assures us that you can just come… there will be plenty!  We sure hope you can come to say goodbye… even if we haven’t seen you in years… come to say goodbye!  It is a “come as you are” event!  No need to dress up… but if you are coming straight from work, don’t worry about dressing down first.  If you are wearing your muddy workboots, that is okay, too!  Just come as you are!  And YES, KIDS are welcome!  Our crew will be there!  There won’t be any activities planned, but kids are welcome to come and eat… then they’ll be able to play in the fellowship hall.  For the most part, it will just be a casual dinner get-together.  At some point during the evening, we will be sharing about what we’ll be doing and showing some pictures of where we are going.  There is no charge for the dinner.  It is from 6:30 to 8:30 at Bethlehem Baptist Church in Springfield at the corner of HWY 76 and Bethlehem Rd.  E-mail or facebook if you have questions!   

VISA UPDATE:  We have been told that we should receive our visas THIS Friday if all goes well!  Please pray specifically for this.  “Mr. H” is the one that is working to get the approvals for us in Jakarta.  In Indonesia, relationships are more important than policy and process like we have in the US.  Please pray specifically for “Mr. H”  as he works on this.  Pray for attention to details for all the needed documents.  Pray that the staff at the government offices receive him well and that he is able to maintain a positive and effective relationship with them. 

When we receive our visas, we’ll be able to purchase our tickets!  If you’d like to help us purchase our tickets, you can give at the dinner mentioned above or you can give according to the information below.  It sounds like our visas our going to cost more than we originally thought.  They may be closer to $3000 instead of $2400.  If prices haven’t changed too much, it looks like our airfare will be close to $7000.  We know God is able to provide all we need!  Thank you for many of you who have already given toward this need!  What a blessing!  Thank you to each of you who give to us so faithfully each month so that we can serve! 

We are making progress with our belongings… finishing the sorting & purging & shredding & storing!  Please pray we finish this quickly so it will be behind us and we can begin PACKING for our departure!  We will need to begin purchasing items to pack that we will want to take plenty of.  For example, we’ll want to take plenty of sunscreen with us.  We’ve been told by several that we’ll want to bring enough sunscreen (SPF 75) to last for 3 years!  That is a lot of sunscreen!  A lot of things are available where we’ll be going to language school, but some things are not.  Some folks who are there have really been blessing us by giving us their opinions on what we might want to bring.  So, soon we’ll be making those decisions/purchases based on their recommendations, our desires, and what we have “space” for.  We won’t be shipping any belongings (other than Dano’s tools).  Everything we take will be our checked baggage.  This is limited to 2 bags per person… 50# per bag… and the bags can only be a certain size.  So please pray with us to have wisdom and discernment as we pack! 

Please also pray with us as we tie up loose ends.  On Thursday, Virginia gets her Typhoid Fever vaccination (now that she has turned 2).  We need to get legal papers all taken care of.  We are all trying to go to the dentist and get our eyes checked.  We need to get our international driver’s licenses (simple… but just another thing to do).  Etc., etc., etc. 

THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU for standing with us.  Thank you for your interest in our ministry and family.  THANK YOU FOR YOUR FAITHFULNESS to our family in prayers and financial gifts. 

Please let us know how we can pray for you! 

Serving alongside you,
Melinda for the family
Dano, Melinda, Olivia, Derek, Emma, Wesley, & Virginia


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Whited Update - Encouragement Needed (3/9/11)

Wow… God is so faithful to our family, and it is His promises that we rest in.  However, we are standing in the need of prayers for healing and encouragement! 

1.       We moved successfully to the mission house in Hendersonville, TN.  It is good to be “home” again.  This move was ONLY accomplished through the amazing help of our friends who helped us get everything ready and who actually helped us get here.  You can visit the blog to read that story!
2.       Our kids have been sick with strep throat, but not just throat symptoms… they have had gastrointestinal symptoms, too.  UGH!  The three youngest were finally getting over it when Olivia’s symptoms started in the wee hours of Wednesday… but her throat doesn’t hurt… so is this the same thing or something different??  We think Derek had it before we left, but who knows.  We know we are exhausted.  I think I’ve taken the kids to the doctor more in the last week than I have in the past year!  Please pray for HEALING & pray for ENDURANCE for us. We are EXHAUSTED. 
3.       We came to TN to spend our last 5 weeks with family… well one week has gone by & we have seen very little family due to the illnesses.  We’ve only seen my brother & Dano’s mom & step-father.  The kids are dying to see their cousins (and vice versa).  It is challenging to be so close… yet so far away.  Please pray that we would be able to have quality time starting soon.  Also, Virginia’s 2nd birthday (and party) is this weekend.  We hope to be able to celebrate with family! 
4.       PLEASE PRAY FOR OUR VISAS TO COME THROUGH SOON SO THAT WE CAN PURCHASE OUR TICKETS.  We have this house until April 10th…. 
5.       Please also pray for the remaining money we need to come in for those tickets.  How much do we need?  It will depend on when we are able to purchase the tickets! 
6.       Please pray for the many loose ends that we are trying to take care of & the continual sorting & discarding & donating of our belongings. 

I hope this e-mail does not seem too discouraging.  I strive to be encouraging to you as we communicate… but we feel heavily burdened now.  We know God is able to handle these burdens, and we cast them at His feet… but we still have the day in and day out stuff to take care of… like throw up!  =0) 

May the Lord bless each of you.  I know many hearts are burdened with the trials of life.  Please know that we are here to pray for you.  Don’t hesitate to share your requests with us.  A verse that was encouraging during Daddy’s battle with cancer was Romans 10:12  Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer.  I hope that we will be found faithful in prayer even when we don’t get the immediate answers we want.  We are trusting in God’s sovereignty knowing that we are here for His Glory and knowing that He always knows what is best. 

Serving alongside you,
Melinda for the gang
Dano, Melinda, Olivia, Derek, Emma, Wesley, & Virginia
104 East Ridge Ct.
Hendersonville, TN  37075