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Thursday, June 14, 2012

The Lord Gives and the Lord Takes Away

One of the paper wreaths with the verse mentioned
below from the funeral on Tuesday along with the cross
used for the marker of the baby's grave.  
the Lord gave, and the Lord hath taken away; blessed be the name of the Lord.  Job 1:21b

This was a verse on a paper wreath at a funeral I attended on Tuesday for a two day old baby born 7 weeks before her due date.  Sad doesn’t even come close to the emotion I was feeling.  Honestly, I was feeling many emotions. 

As we have lived on this island for 4 months now and in this country for 14 months, one thing I have noticed is that death comes more often for these people.

In the first three days of this week, I believe my helper attended three funerals. 

The first was for a young man in his twenties from her church.  He had gotten sick, went to the hospital, but died on Monday.

Tuesday she went to the funeral of the baby that I also attended.  The father works with Dano.  They go to the same church as my helper.

Wednesday my helper’s nephew’s wife died as a result of giving birth to her 5th child and hemorrhaging. 

Although death comes more often, she continues to work diligently and with a smile on her face.  I think death is normal here.  It is a part of life. 

Isn’t that true though… DEATH is a part of LIFE.  None of us are guaranteed tomorrow.  We are only guaranteed that last breath we just took. 

So how then do we live?  Do we live as if that were our last breath?  Honestly, I don’t.  I always seem to live as if I have tomorrow… or next week… or at least another decade or two or more.  That is why I am always putting things off.  I THINK I have tomorrow! 

Lord, forgive me for my presumptuous spirit.  Help me to seize the day FOR YOU!  None of us are guaranteed our next breath.

How will that change what YOU do today?  How will that change what I do in the next 10 minutes?

Lord, give me wisdom and discernment for each moment.  Help me to live with urgency as if tomorrow is not guaranteed.  I don’t want to live in fear, but I don’t want to live as if THIS MOMENT doesn’t matter.  Give me a balance that will impact others in my life.  Help me to teach this urgency to my kids.  May our lives be a light for you as we share the REASON we choose to live life to the fullest.  May we share YOUR GRACE with everyone in our lives.

Thank you, Lord, that you have allowed me this moment to speak with you and listen to your Spirit.  In Jesus name, Amen

Now... I need to get off the computer and LIVE!

Blessings,
Melinda  

2 comments:

pauletta said...

Thoughtful, informative, provocative remarks.Well-written. You do a great job with your blog. I didn't realize our children's minister at church has a blog till today. She shared about her spiritual response to watching Narnia movies with her new husband. And I still don't have a blog. Maybe someday!?!?

pauletta said...

Thoughtful, informative, provocative remarks.Well-written. You do a great job with your blog. I didn't realize our children's minister at church has a blog till today. She shared about her spiritual response to watching Narnia movies with her new husband. And I still don't have a blog. Maybe someday!?!?